Happiness cant be defined by words it can only be expressed, anger can be defined by words as well as can be expressed too.Sometimes small small things makes us feel Happy and proud.Sometimes even the large things doesn't make us happy. We do shout at others because of our anger at that moment without knowing its consequences, we do break up sometimes just because of our anger.
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Our Parents love us more than their life, and we do love them more than our life. When we were kids they taught us how to walk , how to eat, how to talk, how to behave , whats good, whats bad, what we have to do, what that we never have to do and lot more things , what we are now is because of them, what we will become in our life is because of them . As a kid we would have given so many troubles , we would have demanded some things for which our parents never told No nor they got upset for our troublesome activities, they always supported us and stood behind us giving us the more power and confidence. Kids normally do ask many questions, and same question manier times and parents will never become angry for this instead they will tell the answers very calmly and with very much patience.
Time goes on, we do grow, now we know how to talk, how to walk, how to behave, and for the questions which we used to ask during our childhood we have the answers, while we grow we forget the things our parents taught us what not to do, we all will be in our own worlds(dreams), we make friends(Some good , some bad) and they will become integral part of our life, we will have thousands of attractions that distract us (that's how the life is), we learn some good things, and will do culture some bad habits, and its the age (18), we start showing some disrespect for Parents, if they ask something we start giving rude answers angrily, we ourselves feel some kind of negligence towards parents, we start complaining why you asking this, i have not done some thing wrong, why you doubting me, and several others do follow.
Parents who loved us more than their life , who will sacrifice there entire life for us, we start showing negligence , we sometimes even do feel they are irritating us but not really they do, its all there Love which we misconceptualize as Irritation and this behavior that they never taught us ,make them angry towards us even though they never show it, they do really feel bad about. This is what the respect that we give for our Parents who taught us all the things, who stood behind us all the time, Parents do grow old where they need our support, and our support make them feel very much relaxed, but what we do , we will not take the responsibility, for those who taught us how to talk we start blaming just because we don't want to take responsibility !! and finally we take such a decision that they will be sent to Old age homes, even taught there children's are their whom they loved their entire life, they will be all alone, feeling sad, crying internally, consoling themselves, counting days.
Is this is what the behaviour that we should show?? Is this is how we should give respect ?? Is this is how we should make them feel proud ?? Is this is how we should treat them when they need us??
Give respect in such a way that they feel proud of you, behave in such a way that others should say why am I not like him/her , treat them in such a way that others should feel jealous. Never let them go down , support when they need. They will never ask anything , cant we show Love towards them , are we so much kajoos that we can't give Happiness that they need !!
Our Parents love us more than their life, and we do love them more than our life. When we were kids they taught us how to walk , how to eat, how to talk, how to behave , whats good, whats bad, what we have to do, what that we never have to do and lot more things , what we are now is because of them, what we will become in our life is because of them . As a kid we would have given so many troubles , we would have demanded some things for which our parents never told No nor they got upset for our troublesome activities, they always supported us and stood behind us giving us the more power and confidence. Kids normally do ask many questions, and same question manier times and parents will never become angry for this instead they will tell the answers very calmly and with very much patience.Time goes on, we do grow, now we know how to talk, how to walk, how to behave, and for the questions which we used to ask during our childhood we have the answers, while we grow we forget the things our parents taught us what not to do, we all will be in our own worlds(dreams), we make friends(Some good , some bad) and they will become integral part of our life, we will have thousands of attractions that distract us (that's how the life is), we learn some good things, and will do culture some bad habits, and its the age (18), we start showing some disrespect for Parents, if they ask something we start giving rude answers angrily, we ourselves feel some kind of negligence towards parents, we start complaining why you asking this, i have not done some thing wrong, why you doubting me, and several others do follow.
Parents who loved us more than their life , who will sacrifice there entire life for us, we start showing negligence , we sometimes even do feel they are irritating us but not really they do, its all there Love which we misconceptualize as Irritation and this behavior that they never taught us ,make them angry towards us even though they never show it, they do really feel bad about. This is what the respect that we give for our Parents who taught us all the things, who stood behind us all the time, Parents do grow old where they need our support, and our support make them feel very much relaxed, but what we do , we will not take the responsibility, for those who taught us how to talk we start blaming just because we don't want to take responsibility !! and finally we take such a decision that they will be sent to Old age homes, even taught there children's are their whom they loved their entire life, they will be all alone, feeling sad, crying internally, consoling themselves, counting days.
Is this is what the behaviour that we should show?? Is this is how we should give respect ?? Is this is how we should make them feel proud ?? Is this is how we should treat them when they need us??
Give respect in such a way that they feel proud of you, behave in such a way that others should say why am I not like him/her , treat them in such a way that others should feel jealous. Never let them go down , support when they need. They will never ask anything , cant we show Love towards them , are we so much kajoos that we can't give Happiness that they need !!
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